oh my god I know how you feel. I'm not over weight, but I'm a lot bigger than I was when I first met my partner. He says things like "i need to go to they gym more" and looks like he was carved out of fucking marble. I'm sitting here all chubby like, "Why does he want to be with me?"
it’s normal to think that way. ive gained weight recently and it’s really discouraging. i do think it’d make the relationship better because id be happier and more confident in myself. and also i do believe physical attraction is important so i know that if i let myself go too far he may not be attracted to me as much..i dont want that.